I forgot to write about this one! LOL So I actually did the whole April Fools thing this year.
When Ben got home from work, we sat down and started chatting about our day. Ben brought up our new week with P90X and I told him "Well yeah but I need to go to a Dr first to figure out just want kind of physical activity I can do!" He looked completely confused and asked what I was talking about. I told him "Well I'm pregnant Ben" Right away he got this super excited look on his face, which I wasn't expecting. He was like "Are you serious! Oh my! Rachel!!!" He started jumping up and down and I started feeling like a total jerk so I quickly said "Well...the test is on the sink hurry go look!" And he gave me a kiss and said he had a feeling this was a boy for sure! Then he ran off and found a stiky note on the sink that read April Fools. Aparently it was not funny. I didn't know he would react that way, we just had a baby four months before!!! I'm not even supposed to get pregant for a while if I can even do so from my history! But in the end he laughed it off and said "Its true things would've gotten crazy, but I would never get upset over something like that!" I seriously thought the joke would give him relief! But guess not! I'm such an evil person! LOL
It DID get me thinking though, I'm so blessed to have a husband that no matter what loves sharing our life together. We both understand that by getting married, there is so much that will come our way and we except it. Its funny that a lame joke actually showed me something, it showed me that if we were thrown a wrench like that, if we seriously had plans all crazed up like that, it wouldn't matter. For us kids will come, whether planned or not we'll see it as something that is meant to be, we'd be happy and completely excited! We may fight, we may make mistakes, but we've always held on to eachother through trials, we help eachother with desicions, sadness, anger etc. It all comes with the package, suprises WILL come so really its no suprise, we just don't know what types they may be, only that we must embrace them together!
I love you Ben...in a couple years I'll want that boy too! LOL But for now thank you for sharring this crazy ride with me!
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